Who Ties Your Shoes?!
A tired, heartfelt, and occasionally sarcastic open letter from a teacher standing at the edge of summer asking one very important question: “Who ties your shoes?” This reflection explores learned helplessness, accountability, over-parenting, student burnout, teacher exhaustion, and why sometimes the most loving thing adults can do is step back and LET. THEM.
Choosing Presence & Learning to Stay
I think we’ve been lied to about what thriving is supposed to look like. Somewhere along the way, thriving became synonymous with momentum, clarity, joy, productivity—good weeks where everything clicks and nothing hurts too badly. By that definition, this has not been a thriving week for me. But I’m starting to realize that thriving isn’t a mood or an outcome—it’s a posture. It’s not about having it together or feeling inspired. It’s about choosing presence when things are heavy, uncomfortable, and unresolved.